I can not stand when a female gets “traps” by a man and think that she can not function properly without him. I have this friend who is a prime example of this, first her excuse was well we have a kid together and I don’t want to break up our family. Mind you this guy was caught cheating and that’s why she was about to leave him. Then a few days later and a few kind gestures here and there. She back on how much she love him and how she is so happy. Then he cheats again then she like I’m for real this time we are done. This lasted about a month, I’m guessing that month was too long for her because she then ended up pregnant by him. But here’s the kicker….It was twins!!! So now she has three kids by the guy who was already caught cheating twice (that I know of) now he still cheating and “working late” Barely come see the kids talking about he needs time to relax because he been working all day. So he goes out to party and hang with his friends while she at home taking care of the kids. She catches him cheating again and decided to give yours truly a call so she can get even with him I guess. So after getting served, she goes back to him and then they (she) works something out and now of a sudden they a happy family. But he goes back on his old ways and she at home miserable calling me while she drunk telling me all these sob stories then he slips up again and replaces a condom in his car that she took out once before when she had found it. So then she acts like she is determined to get him out her life and she start talking this and that stuff. And just a few moments ago she texted talking about how she was about to do this and that to him sexually all this time I thinking like this guy knows that you not going anywhere that why he do what he do. Its bad enough she feels that nobody will wont here because she gain some weight and have three kids. Once a some manipulating guy learns that he has a female depending on him and one with low self-esteem he will run with that and treat her however no matter if they have a kid(s) or not. because he know he can get away with whatever and she is not going to do anything. All I can do is shake my head when I talk to her because if I try to bring it up she does not want to hear it. I honestly just on the verge of not caring and let her live in her little fantasy world where every thing is peachy keen. But in reality she just being trapped by this man. What to do what to do……